看得心碎一地。男主真的好气人。用女主的话说，真的是用的是猪大脑吧。全剧那么多感情用事和智商不在线的时候。尤其是对沈兰，不明白他对一个以前并不认识的嫂子那么意气用事，连哥哥还有以前的喜欢的女人他倒是能为大局而忍受。重点是老是因此对宝珍很过分。能被你一直伤害还一直保全你的人，也只有是真的爱你的人了，老说不想伤害她，但一直伤害她的也就你了男主，心疼大小姐。

蒋宝珍如果是他叔叔派来对付他的特务，早弄死他了，不断的救他，却还对女主的伤害那么狠。对罗子春啥的却那么圣母。老是觉得和她在一起回伤害她，真是执念啊。如果明天可能死，那今天更要加倍珍惜在一起的机会和时光啊，那么英雄那么大义凛然，不如站在女主的角度上去看自己的所谓理智，女主的真心徐义觉都说他这都看不明白，笨蛋。

真是个笨蛋啊。脑子子弹的话女主也可以为他请最好医生治病，再者如女主说的不就是死吗，有个愿意和你一起度过黑暗和死亡的人不好吗。女主才是活得精彩和明智通透的人。

碍于女主身份，会去感化罗子春等人，却没有勇气想过尝试在一起之后可能感化女主，就一根筋的想我会死，我的身份啥的。人真的很怕太执念，佛家言，执所以迷。好可惜，好心疼女主。还有最后编得感觉就是为虐而虐，意难平。之前也有两人不和，但也不至于就不能见面说话，非要说他们连靠近见面都不行。真是...就不能有点糖吗，让两个人在身份明朗的时候见上面说上话，看得心碎一地。

表面的装酷冷静，男主内心深处没有那么坚强，甚至满满的恐惧和脆弱吧。战争面前，真的很残酷，再怎样每个人都只是个有血有肉的一个人而已。男主有女主那么理解和看透，不能在一起，还要那么死掉了，真的很想给编剧寄刀片！！！！T T

陈晨和林峰，是两个非常相似的人，相似的点在于他们都是被迫推上“神坛”的人物——这是一场盛大的“造神运动”。这部剧隐含深意我觉得非常好。林峰的战斗英雄是“被给予”的，陈晨腿伤坚持上前线也是因为他的军长父亲需要儿子“做表率”，那么从此两人各自陷入内心的纠结之中。林峰心中埋入了一颗雷名为“良心的谴责”，他并不是战斗英雄，却成为被推出的英雄人物。陈晨的心愿不在于当兵，可因为父亲需要他做表率，失去了一条腿也要说服自己去前线。在造神狂潮当中，如果“神”跌落了神坛，会有什么后果呢？即便他们并不是“神”，想做回普通人却很难。最后一刻，林峰心中的“雷”终于炸了，他解脱了；陈晨也转业从事自己想做的事。“造神运动”其实影射了当代社会的部分问题，战雷这部剧深层的内涵值得我们思考。

男女主颜值都超级在线 很久没看过这么棒的剧了 反正我超爱！之前我以为太极真的就是一些老年人的喜爱 但看完这部剧我才明白喜欢就可以做好任何事情 导演真的很有想法 所有细节都恰到好处 光打的也很好 还有各种怼脸拍 卫楚也真的超级会撩人 尤其是看他吃醋那段我嘴角都咧到耳根了 当时卫楚不知道自己吃醋 还跑去请教俩兄弟 能逗死我 台词用的还是原声 简直不要太苏 反正就一句话 我爱这部剧

梁山伯和祝英台两个都是女演员扮演，所以前期在书院读书的戏，两人同窗之间的惺惺相惜和默契都显得很自然。尤其是在书院中学生跟着老师上课“唱”诗的场景很有古韵，还原我想象中古代人读书的场景，诗原先就是被唱出来的。虽然人工布景舞台感很重，但取景构图模仿中国画，所以依然很有古典美。十八相送拍得很精彩。后半段，梁山伯知道祝英台是女儿身后去祝家提亲，祝父却先一步答应了马文才家的亲事。梁山伯此时还不知道马文才的事，一心欢喜来找祝英台。而祝英台虽然喜欢梁山伯，但已经明白两人今生缘分已尽。所以当梁祝相见时应该是多种情感交织，但导演这里表现的不是很好。两位女演员表演的已经很好了，但就是因为是同性，所以梁祝之间没有爱情的感觉。之前同窗读书时，祝英台对梁山伯暗生情愫，还是有小细节刻画的，但少了梁山伯对祝英台产生爱情的刻画。当梁山伯知道了祝英台是女儿郎到两人见面时梁山伯又得知祝英台许配给马英才了，两个人当场就哭的死去活来。但由同性之情到男女之情，这中间完全没有过渡，所以两人见面即分手的戏显得非常生硬，最后草草结尾。

伟大的艺术家分为两种：一种在固执的自我欣赏中实现逻辑自洽；一种在严苛的自我怀疑中修正逻辑谬误。在《野梨树》之前，我深信锡兰是前者，因为他创造的幻境太具辨识度，有时像一首隽永的诗，有时像一部危险的小说，他独有的造梦体系可以容纳一切介质。

但若把《野梨树》看成锡兰对自我人生的投射，会发现他其实是后者。恰是源于他深刻的自我反省，才能在保持如雷霆万钧般深厚人文思考强度的同时，以极致的克制力避免表达的赘余。而这，恰是他此前作品中“树欲静而风不止”的来源。

《野梨树》确是他作品序列中的异数，它不再具备显性的叙事牵引力，而是将素材打散了遗落在各处，形成俯首即拾的错落感。影片中的“锡兰”以异乡人自居，却不得不选择归乡。他怀才不遇、自命不凡；桀骜不驯、格格不入；他竭力以形而上的哲学思辨尝试与他人进行深层的沟通，却因缺少对旁人的体察而落得鸡同鸭讲的难堪局面。

无论是与少时旧爱深情一吻后被咬破嘴唇，在大雨中狼狈窜入台球室无人理睬；还是被妹妹识破穷酸的窘境大肆争吵，与知名作家话不投机遭受斥责，都让他的存在成为可有可无的尴尬。影片里他多次站在山坡上俯瞰低处星星点点的屋舍，幻想高处不胜寒，却不想真正被流放的其实是自己，他既无力腾空，又无法落地。

“锡兰”的父亲貌似是他的反面，也曾才华横溢雄心勃勃，却终究在现实的挤压中寻得最具可行性的生存策略。他懂得何时插科打诨、何时自我嘲讽、何时佯装愤怒、何时真情流露。而相较“锡兰”的对立面，在某种意义上，他更像是“锡兰”在在时间洗刷作用下必然会进化成为的复刻翻版。

《野梨树》中依然有锡兰标志式的“冻结”时刻，以往的作品中大多是在漫长的求索与消耗后，通过人物的静默与凝视对过去时进行消化与思考，并完成对未尽困境的释怀。而本片“冻结”时刻的诉求却不同以往，隔着栅栏目睹故人婚礼，在桥上将雕像断臂投入河中，望着父亲在树下沉沉睡去时被蚂蚁覆盖的脸，每一次的冻结都让“锡兰”离被唤醒仅有一步之遥，但他却依然陷入梦中无法清醒。影片并未挑明他究竟是因为不自知而不觉醒，还是因为他仍对理想主义怀有梦想，情愿赌上自尊与前程。

此时，一个以自我怀疑与反省为训时刻警醒着的作者形象呼之欲出。他本我的表达欲是充沛甚至满溢的，他对信息的吸收与分解程度以光年计算，但他担心自己远离人群而丧失与周遭的共情力，他时刻要求自己仅以极小的切口释放必要的能量，因此他对“锡兰”的傲慢既是鄙夷的，又是豁达的；既是同情的，又是珍视的。

这便是锡兰在自我创作之路上需要面对的矛盾与抉择。是选择做一个哲学家？文学家？画家？观察家？还是梦想家？而他决定在《冬眠》斩获金棕榈后拍摄《野梨树》，这个时点才是最耐人寻味的。在创作方法上，他以自我解放为名行使了自我反省之实，也许从根本上，他是怀疑自己的，毕竟在功成名就的巅峰时期，有谁会要求他进行自我反省？除了他自己，别无他人。而这一切，也恰是锡兰成为真正被影史铭记大师的必经之路。

看完书，来看的电影。说实在，初中学课文的时候，断章取义，觉得虎妞很坏，同情祥子。看了书和电影，对360°大转变。她是彪悍，使诡计，但她心还是善良的。她是好吃，但也不算懒做，家务还是做的吧。而且她敢爱敢恨，果断。不要说旧社会，就是现在，也有很多人不敢为爱也好，为性也好，这么豁得出去。冲破封建制度的新女性啊！

祥子，个人觉得除了时代的悲剧外，最根本的还是他性格的懦弱，一根筋，偏执，好面子。没有接受良好的教育，光卖力气不动脑筋。看完小说，对祥子的同情全部消失，倒是有一种恨铁不成钢的感觉。可能我真的太没良心，太坏了。

所以以前学课文，一般都是取小说的其中一个章节，这样对于判断人物性格，分析人物命运，熟悉时代背景真的很可能会断章取义。以前学过的课文，要是现在可以找到原著看一看，真的角度全都不同了。但是，也可能不会抱着纯粹的心去喜欢一个人物，憎恨一个人物了。

1分（1～10分），此片完全可以理解是一个小学生全程在装x，可谓是将装x贯彻到了每一个细节。什么打老师，不懂得感恩，甚至还早恋，使得看了此片的小学生开始目中无人，不尊重长辈。总结下来就两个字-垃圾

从这部电影的剧情看，一般般。

不过可谓是全明星阵容，汇集了香港90年代大半的明星和配角，

一开始美国又是探月又是怎么的，和剧情没啥关系，差不多就是一身正义的警察和5个色狼的故事。

以成龙，刘德华为首的3个正义警察，惩治罪犯，一开始的另外一条线：洪金宝，曾志伟等的5个色狼不停揩油的故事，

洪金宝可谓是个灵活的胖子，还有吴君如，午马，杨紫琼，林青霞等做配角，

关之琳这部电影的牺牲挺大的，湿身和装盲人小便，

打斗加几个人不停想揩油的搞笑等等，

一部爆米花电影。

魚肉好吃嗎?

三個釣魚翁河畔垂釣, 魚餌引誘魚兒上鉤, 中年男人還嫌嘴巴不住張合的掙扎活物力吸世道最後空氣的偷生, 他利用石頭發力砸碎骨肉, 電影營造的硬物敲擊肉塊強大音效輔以拉近的擴大魚唇, 筆者看到施刑一幕時吃了一驚, 有道眼不見為淨, 烤好了的魚肉端上桌子給人吃, 魚目縱使給滾燙的油炸熟, 失去生命光澤, 它依然盯著起箸的人嚐其肉、嚼其皮, 寶島住民要是像日本人吃飯前雙手合十, 唸著[領受了]感謝神明賜予食物敬重的心, 殺死動物手法稍為殘暴, 上天會因為人領受天地創造肉食的禮節釋下憤怒, 寄居山林鬼怪也念著神的面子, 不會附身人體, 以怨生仇。

信奉西方宗教信眾在進食前祈禱上帝潔淨食物；東方的雙掌拍合感恩賞賜,那些殘害魚類的烤灼後立刻大嚼, 以為是大地的主宰人群在綠林山澗朶頤, 枉死屍體散發的氣味招惹了明朝大將鄭成功封印了土地鬼怪侵襲來者, 人好端端的不在家裡, 或在餐館用餐, 偏偏要帶上魚具於荒野神鬼目睹一切下砸毀鮮肉火烤, 人吃魚不感謝上蒼, 這不是吸大地氣息, 與神靈親近的郊遊取樂, 而是繁衍樹林覆蓋下的殺生。

魔不放過不請自來放縱殺戮的人, 魚口噴出的濃煙竄進富貴人家嘴裏是人招來惡魔的罪孽。 電視播出的家庭滅門慘案看來該是血佈寸地。 然而, 畫面顯示的燈光暗藍家屬屍體流的血量較少, 案發現場未能清晰可見, 因此慘烈感覺大幅下滑。 林美華回億片段出現遭魔鬼附身男主人妻子致電求救她的杏眼圓瞪、聲嘶力竭十分可怖, 不只如此, 其後方逐漸接近似是帶上塑膠袋的男人亦是大難當至兆頭, 這種憑藉驚嚇表情、顫抖呼叫的清楚影像, 輔以看不清的隱匿臨身殺氣, 畫面乾淨, 恐怖力卻是大幅上升, 導演利用蒼白視訊創造的戰慓效果費了心血，筆者於影院也感到陣陣寒氣。

電影不知是資金有限? 還是不要上映檔標記「限制級」有損票房? 本來可以鮮血大噴、斷骨破皮的虎爺驅魔場景, 不用刀刃的滅門血案, 甚至黑虎附身決戰煞魔神電影利用音效及電腦特效代替, 血是生命泉源, 也是人看見人體淌出的膽懾, 少了鮮色濃稠的視覺沖擊, 電影還有什麼板斧嚇唬觀眾?

除了本文第四段提及電影用了女演員臉容扭曲的面部特寫, 以及背後那隱隱若現的履及奪命外, 電影陳述女主角黃雅惠遭惡魔纏身的內心掙扎亦見驚心柔情: 母親爆發其窺看兒子與父親情婦溫馨生日會錄像的嫉妒, 然後在兒子學校的表演項目彈奏舒伯特「魔王」鋼琴樂章摧殘家長師生, 令眾人感受表演者憤怒長久服用憂鬱症藥物教愛兒氣她、惱她的放棄自身; 母親瑟縮沙發攥緊兒子要贏得學校辦的 [微電影] 比賽宣傳單張, 獲得與母親在日本北海道旅行獎品的愛, 紙張是母親獨自與侵入身體靈魂魔鬼戰鬥短暫壓制惡鬼欲佔據肉體靈魂的信物, 看到微薄的紙於母親手裡震抖, 她那張賺取了些微扳回人性的喘息臉容, 惹人憐憫。

美麗女演員於電影肯弄醜, 化憔悴的妝容不多, 美人怕接拍這類片子觀眾會挖苦, 明事理的女演員知曉要是她們跨越這道門檻, 她們不再給大眾謔稱為[不懂演技的木頭美人], 筆者起初不習慣徐若瑄在影片的落魄形象, 可是女演員因為要活生生扮演情緒病人, 化妝師在她駐顏有術臉頰加深愁苦疲憊色素 , 徐若瑄豁出去的演技能不俗的演出了母親嫉妒成恨的感情變化, 她的改變憾動了筆者的心, 讓我不敢著眼她的美貌, 看輕她的努力演出。

Patrick Chan寫於2018年12月4日

神澜奇遇无双珠真的yyds,让我看到了国漫的再次崛起。之前我并没有看过这部剧的小说，是弟弟推荐我看的，可能是有我之前看国漫少的原因，所以我对它的动漫版本期待不高。没想到一看就看到停不下来，总觉得一集时长太短了，感觉正看上劲了就结束了，五集真的好快呀，啊啊啊不够看不够看！！！等待更新的时光总是那么的难熬。本人并不是原著党，所以并不知道情节是如何发展的，但是神澜奇遇无双珠的动漫版本让我能够看下去，片头设计的真心不错。年年的建模真的是太棒了，简直是颜值党的福利！法铧和蓝歌的颜值逆天了，人物建模的细节好到位呀，看的时候就发现每一根发丝、每一个微表情都处理的特别到位。不仅是人物形象建模的到位，服饰都各具特色，法铧的高冷、蓝歌的活泼欠欠儿的感觉处理的恰到好处，从角色外观上就可以大致判断出角色的性格脾性，两人在一起碰撞出的火花真的令人啼笑皆非。神澜奇遇无双珠的背景就吸引到了我，平时就很喜欢玄幻类的题材，果然让我大开眼界，神澜奇遇无双珠团队在画风和特效上的用心，真的让我非常喜欢。法铧和蓝歌因为无双珠，他们二人的命运被纠缠到了一起，无双有对、同生本命。为了解开无双珠的“诅咒”，他们又再次在圣域相遇、组队，共同为了得到解灵印比赛，之后的剧情会发展成什么样子呢，非非非常期待！！！最后，抛开一切真心希望大家去看一看神澜奇遇无双珠动漫，一定不会让您失望的！看了就会一直想看下去的那种。希望神澜奇遇无双珠大火，爱奇艺国漫扛起大旗！！！

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Feel Good is a low budget 6-episode TV show which mysteriously skipped my attention when it was first brought up by a friend: probably because it features no big star (Lisa is one, but in a small role), and British TV shows like Fleabag and Killing Eve have raised the bar very high now.

However, one night, I started to watch the first episode and was very impressed. The not so sub plot of addiction is so well-written. I really like it when Mae (its main character shares the same name with the writer and lead actor, which is a bit confusing) expands the definition of ‘addiction’: ‘it’s all the same feelings, craving, and withdrawl, and relief, and obsession. We are just swapping one addiction for another’. By doing that, Mae Martin (I will use the full name when referring to the creator) connects the love story and Mae’s struggle to stay clean together. Mae Martin challenges the audience to view addiction as not only a struggle among a group of people, but something many of us face when being in a toxic relationship with partners, or, say, social media. By then, I am convinced Feel Good is quite good because the creators know ‘nuances’. Its focus on addiction also reminds me of Killing Eve S2, the key word for its 2nd season is ‘obsession’. While both handle compulsive/toxic feelings between people/people and object, Killing Eve’s take on obsession is disappointing, Feel Good, on the other hand, only gets better episode by episode.

Story aside, I am mesmerized by how the show introduces the love story to the audience. It is fast-paced. As Guardian remarks, ‘Feel Good moves so quickly and lightly that it seems impossible it could also be managing to construct characters and burrow into psyches as deeply and empathically as it does.’ You never need to fast-forward; it’s densely-packed but you won’t feel stressful; the plots mingle effortlessly. It takes 30 seconds for Mae and George to fall in love with each other. I love how unconventional and unapologetic it is. I love how an LGBTQIA (bless Joyce) story focus on how the two lovers enjoy their relationship (at least for the most part) without giving too much attention to how they are unsure if the other is into them, or suffering from loneliness because they can’t find a partner. Of course the loneliness issue exists and there is suffering, but there are many representations of those already. Feel Good shows how the relationship can be the start, rather than the ending, of a story.

I also like how the struggles of Mae and George are more about themselves making choices than them being in disagreement with a suffocating society. It is refreshing to see not only Mae’s parents, but George’s mother, support their sexuality. Mae’s gig pals don’t make a fuss about her having a girlfriend. The roommate Phil is an angel. The lead of the support group is a gay man; Lava is loved by her mother regardless of her sexuality. While Binky’s husband and his friends are ‘piece of shit’, I don’t see them as homophobic (I could be wrong though). The show demonstrates that everyone can and should be nice to LGBT+ community. I like how Feel Good doesn’t use societal approval as a trope; instead, it allows us to see Mae and George as individuals who make their own decisions. Yes, sexuality is and will be important in their lives, but they don’t let it to devour them, they can still breathe.

The relationship is beautifully written and wonderfully performed. I mean THE CHEMISTRY!! Yes there is sex. As Mae Martin said, she didn’t want the lesbian sex to be voyeuristic. I congratulate her in doing a fantastic job!! Feel Good has amazing sex scenes: they are romantic, witty, hilarious, and honest. The director and writers make sure the sex scenes are not about sex/lust only, they are also about female pleasure. Mae and George communicate and share their sexual preferences; they don’t force their fetish on the other, instead, they ask politely. The show doesn’t mystify lesbian sex: even lesbians can’t cum and that’s ok! Feel Good has achieved what Sex Education has done: it has educated people (older than high schoolers) how to have sex, and more importantly, how to discern when the relationship is going south.

There are nudity scenes and they are (quite literally) serving the plot: it is when Mae feels most vulnerable physically. The paradox of the physicality and the personality is, however, not restricted to gay people. Mae is struggling because she believes however hard she tries, she can never have George in the long haul because George is ‘culturally straight’. George, however, insists this idea is just in Mae’s head. (Or is it?) It becomes apparent that the couple is not on the same page on many things. Mae is shy but she wants public validation of their relationship: she wants to be blessed by George’s family and friends. George is popular (win the lottery) but she is ultra private when it comes to Mae. She points out her friends just want to crack a joke and emotions (mind, not sexuality), for them, is gross. Eventually, George will have to face her own real emotions. There is a moment where Mae questions why George never like/retweet her social media stuffs. As Fleabag says ‘Hair is everything’, the (non)usage of social media, I argue, is (almost) everything. This again shows the discrepancy between the couple – which, of course, is normal; in every relationship/friendship, such disagreements happen and that’s what makes this show so relatable.

It is interesting to note that the dynamic between the two flows all the time. I find myself on the side of Mae and then I am on George’s side! For example, the first episode shows Mae concealing her addiction history from George, which is a bit dishonest; but George also makes Mae think she’s already mentioned her to her friends while actually she’s dating some Crenshaw dude. I find it especially interesting that while George is portrayed as a cold person (she leaves Mae alone in a party; she’s rather cold towards Phil etc etc), Mae can also be quite aloof – check what she does to Lava. When she says let’s not share this with Maggie, it is as if George were saying let’s not tell my friends now.

Talking about George and her friends, I really like how the show does about their friendship. It shows that those friendships, even though ‘long haul’, are not necessarily genuine. Indeed, things can be tricky, if not scary, when friends finally choose to be honest with each other, right?

Binky’s husband and friends are hilarious characters, but the show makes sure not all the male characters are caricatured. I like Phil a lot; he’s giving me the neighbor who ended up marrying Hannah’s boyfriend’s sister in Girls, especially when he’s mentioning all the baby stuffs. Mae’s dad is a charming character; but I am not sure if he’s a good dad. His ‘Oh I need to check the garden’ is a specimen of dad type, who leaves all the dirty job of communicating with kids to mums. The show also inserts in a MeToo story plot where things turn sour quickly. In all, the portrayals of male characters are multifaceted. Well done.

Last but not the least: small roles. Does the show even have small roles? Because everyone shines. Even the shop assistant of that sex shop: the scene is so funny and captivating. Lisa Kudrow is funny but in a cold way – which is really nice. I am not crazy about her first appearance in the laptop; seeing her appear in Blackpool is a real surprise for me (and Mae). I love the scene in Ghost Train the most. Arguing in a horror house/moving train, with all the noise and terrifying man-makes while discussing ‘real emotions’, which is the most terrifying of all – what a genius idea!! The fact that the show keeps vague about why Mae is cast out of the family is an interesting one; I quite like how her mother points out her privilege and that she has everything she wants when she grows up. Again, the show is looking at the mysterious and intricate human mind that is not so easily explainable. Apart from that, I don’t think there are a lot of TV shows that discuss ‘privilege’. Kudos to the writers for highlighting this aspect.

The photography is really pretty. It, like TEOTFW, has a consistent tone, which is even reflected when Mae and George are in bed. Note the beautiful blue shadow. The music is nice. The costume looks comfy and lovely (never let the costume steal the show– I’m talking to you, Killing Eve). My favorite, as I said earlier is the pace of narration. Mae has run a lot and it is a signature of Feel Good, like Fleabag’s looking at the camera.

Feel Good is about a female stand-up comedian. In the States, there is The Marvelous Mrs Maisel. Both Mae and Midge suffer from a backfire from they using real-life stories with their partner (judging from S1 finale, haven’t watched S2 yet). It is interesting to think how personal the stand-up mateials can be, but having just watched Hannah Gadsby’s Nanette, I am reminding myself that in order to make things funny, the ‘truth’ can be compromised. While Nanette is almost metafictional when Hannah approaches/disconstructs what makes comedy, I don’t think that is the angle Feel Good is heading towards. However, it is still fit to think about the show amongst the powerful works by Mae Martin’s fellow female comedians. The freshness of the show also reminds me of Girls (with its minute depictions of modern female life) and Fleabag (with its candidacy about real emotions). Feel Good deserves more recognition and PLEASE CAN WE HAVE SEASON 2 THANK YOU NETFLIX!!

我就说说后面的戏份吧！

全片的经费燃烧成本爆炸重点！龙叔用一个快乐大矿车直达平推水晶！

让我们记住这些豪车！这幢大房子！

1:25:00鸡卡罗の别墅：危

成龙使出他电影史上最强宝具！输出大卡车一量！

“3分钟之内拆了你！地基全给你扬了！”

不要惹中国厨师。因为他们还会功夫，还会开挖掘机。

看到后面我已经逐渐忘记片名了…是…啥来着…一个啥？哦。一个…好…好人？

这不是一个好人，这是“你敢动我女朋友我把你家全拆了把你骨灰全扬了”的一个狠人

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看完这部《爱的千丝万缕》意外觉得很戳心。当同性终于跨过可能比异性恋艰辛百倍的困难，终成眷属，拥有了一个合法的家庭，拥有了可爱的孩子，从此过上了幸福快乐的生活时，我们应该为此庆幸。然而既然是生活，就不可能只是童话，幸福快乐也不可能是它一成不变的结局。他们的爱情也会在时间的长河中趋于平淡，他们的激情也会在油盐酱醋中慢慢磨灭，他们的话题也会在不知不觉中只有了孩子这个中心。一方的出轨成为这段看似稳定美满的同性关系走过20年的结局，不免让人唏嘘。虽说这部电影想表达的是爱存在于亲朋好友间，不管他们之间的关系如何改变，不管他们是否存在血缘，只要有爱与关心，就是幸福。

可我观影后的困惑却在于夫夫（夫妻）关系到底如何才能保持长久的稳定，人们常说我想要的爱情不是那种浓烈忘我的，而是细水长流般的。20年前的他们为了能在一起，为了能正大光明地在一起，经历了多少磨难和斗争，才如愿以偿。可当他们终于成为了人们眼中的完美家庭后，终究没有逃脱分道而行的结局，到底打败他们的是什么，是时间的残酷，还是人心。

我们期望的人生幸福不就是执子之手与子偕老么？不管同性还是异性，我们只是想和爱的人慢慢变老，相互偎依，可又有多少人能实现它呢？也许疾病、意外我们没办法控制，但更多的时候分离我们的只是人心，人心又如何可控呢？

年轻的时候可以一腔热血创造无限的可能，不畏惧轰轰烈烈地爱人，也不害怕被伤害得一无所有。可当你老了呢，当你以为可以这样平淡而满足地生活下去时，身边的另一半却偷启所谓的“第二春”，把你至于两难境地，真实又扎心。

在面对另一半出轨时，我身边的有些朋友在挣扎后选择原谅，大多也是因为想给孩子一个稳定的家，可这样一味追求关系的稳定是不是就丧失了建立家庭幸福的初心呢；还有些人会毅然决然地选择分开，好多年后仍然孤身一人，不免让身边的朋友看起来有些心酸。之前看过许多同影或剧（比如《我丈夫的爱人》、《再见，妈妈》等等），男主们伟大的妈妈其实并不在乎儿子是不是少数，也不在乎儿子会不会结婚，她们关心的中心只有一个：选择走这条路的孩子会不会孤单，以后会不会孤单呐？会有人一直陪伴吗？可悲的是，谁都不能在当下给一个唯一的答案，只是相爱的人会给彼此这个答案的勇气和憧憬。

回到这部电影里，虽然对于电影里一方的出轨仍耿耿于怀，觉得不齿，但又觉得既已发生，当然还是分开的好，结局虽然是幸福有爱的模样，可出轨一方有佳人相伴，而另一方却始终孤独，总觉得心里有那么些不舒服和悲悯。总的来说，这部标注喜剧的电影会让你有所思，退一步说，只是冲着小男主的颜也值得一看。小男主奶萌奶萌的，笑起来可真好看呀，总觉得似曾相识，又不知是在哪里见过。