家里有游泳池，买打折衬衫就算了，车子可是男人的脸面啊，还要买二手车。堂堂一个董事长，懦弱的被一个女人蹩脚的手段压制，全世界怕是找不出这么一个吧。

家里有游泳池，买打折衬衫就算了，车子可是男人的脸面啊，还要买二手车。堂堂一个董事长，懦弱的被一个女人蹩脚的手段压制，全世界怕是找不出这么一个吧。

如何算作是好的父母，如何引导孩子成长？这是我们做爸爸妈妈以来一直都在思考的问题。我曾为竞争激烈的社会环境而焦虑不安，看到“别人家孩子”的知识容量而紧张自己的孩子是不是起步晚了；也曾感慨“孩子的童年只有一次”，只要让孩子自由和快乐生活就好，其他无足轻重。就在这时急时缓、跌跌撞撞的养育之路上，我有幸看到了《陪你在全世界长大》，让我再次感悟到了养育的核心：爱，尊重，陪伴。

我们总想着教给孩子什么，教会他认识世界万物，教会他感知世间情感，而老极一家，更多的是平等与尊重孩子，陪伴他去体验。让孩子用自己的视角去看待生命中的一切，让孩子自己去定义每一项品质，逐渐知道自己想要什么，想成为一个怎样的人。没有谁一定是对的或是错的，作为父母，只是我们比孩子提前走过了一段路程。

父母和孩子可以是彼此成就的。孩子成长的过程也是为人父母成长的过程。无论家庭是贫穷或是富有，是稳定或是波动，过的生活是平淡无奇还是轰轰烈烈，都是一段别样的旅程，都是独一无二的风景。父母不用因为孩子而放弃自己所爱，孩子亦不用屈于父母而隐匿自己所想，只要彼此尊重，陪伴，在爱的浸润下度过每一天，那我们每个人都会有美丽人生。

三星堆我们都听过，但是三星堆的考古人这么有意思，还真得要看过《不止考古》之后才能知道。尤其被第三集里的曾大爷，上班状态简直还原现在年轻人梦想中的样子，狠狠慕了！

一块块的陶片被还原成远古时期的陶器，明明是充满使命感的工作，大爷却不这么想。他说自己年轻时把修陶当作工作，修着修着居然修成老匠人了。驾轻就熟的语气，仿佛云淡风轻的世外高手出现在了我的眼前~

曾大爷的工作，绝对是大家的理想型，离家只有几百米，到点不想干了就先回家吃饭，每天一个人跟陶片打交道，轻松又自在！更有意思的是，说到放假三天，曾大爷笑得嘴都合不拢，看来不管几几后，放假永远是神圣的！上班老师傅下班老顽童就是曾大爷本人没错了！两耳不闻窗外事，一心只在筑长城。从早到晚，麻将桌上四川大爷爽朗的笑声就没断过，这样的老年生活谁不心动呢？

一直追更纪录片的小伙伴肯定能发现，不管是田野考古队的王瑞、冉哥，还是修复师傅老郭、曾大爷，三星堆的考古星人总是带着一种可盐可甜的奇妙气场。工作时，他们是严肃较真的考古人，下班时，多数是个逗趣有梗的喜剧人，又能专业又能跳脱，反差感真的巨可爱！

我曾经一度以为，后半辈子就在盼望退休中度过了，没想到看完曾大爷的修陶职场记才意识到我的梦中情工，原来是修陶师呀！毕竟谁不想拥有曾大爷这么幸福的“拉磨”状态呢！现在努力还不晚，争取早日进入修陶行业，希望到时候曾大爷的徒弟还有空位~

电影最后刘好有了一个美好的结局，但我却不自觉的感到不真实和担忧。

一穷二白靠蹬三轮为生的刘好他的未来能好吗？他赚的钱能撑起这个家吗？

看电影的过程中，我的内心总会不住的冒出这些念头。我明白在我的潜意识里刘好的生活是艰辛的，他的人生是不幸的，下岗、离婚、低收入…剧中的一切我代入进去只感受到生存的压抑，幸福这两个字好像和他毫无关系。

但我电影的走向又提醒我等待刘好的会是一个美满幸福的结局，所以我总在想是不是在结尾刘好会迎来机械降神式的一笔横财，不然他怎么娶媳妇？又怎么改变自己的生活？结婚后他们就住在这个小破楼里吗？现实的我面对这些只会觉得喘不过气，而电影里似乎大部分人并不为此担心。

导演用一部电影明明白白的告诉我幸福和金钱没有绝对的关系。

幸福和金钱无关？我可以确定如果今天出现了与本作价值逻辑相同的电影一定会被批判脱离现实。我想不起来一部近十年来主角住在狭小的房间干着体力劳动却感到幸福的影视作品，甚至这样的角色在当今的荧幕上已经消失了，即使出现他们也是以市侩的丑角形象沦为衬托主角品格的工具。

没有物质的爱情就是一盘散沙，很恶心的一句话，很烂俗的小说，但回过头发现我们的价值观也是如此。

我早些年可能相信过平淡的幸福，但慢慢的我发现平淡是有门槛的，而且门槛并不低。婚姻、买房、薪资、升职这些东西对我们来说不是轻飘飘的几个词，而是啃食我们人生的怪物。

当年的人比起二十多年后的我们似乎更看重一些本质的东西，二十多年来我们得到了很多，社会不断进步，我们有了更丰富的物质生活、更多元的精神享受。然而看着他们脸上洋溢的笑容我却十分嫉妒，嫉妒到怀疑这个故事的真实性。

「You're a non-completer. → Oh, am I? → Are you a completer? → Up to a point. Can one complete anything up to a point? I don't think so.」

「Whatever you're going through, someone's been through it before you, put it into words.」

「Just because there's no blood, don't think it's not a murder. He's murdering a marriage. Marriages don't bleed, but it's still murder. → Marriages break down. It happens all the time. Nobody wants it to happen but it does, and we have to live with it.」

「After all, suppose it was a cancer and you were in unbearable pain and dying only too slowly, Then I'd say end it now wouldn't I? Out of my love for you. So if your life hurts you so much that you want to end it, I won't stop you. out of my love for you, only just tell me. Don't let it be a surprise. Give me time to say goodbye. I can't ask you to live for me. But we each have to carry our own burden. You're like the explorer. You're further down the road. You've gone on ahead. So if after a while you don't go on anymore, then I'll know that the road is too hard and for too long. I'll know that in the end, the unhappiness wins. But if you do go on and bear it, terrible as it is, then I'll know that however bad it gets, I can last it out because you did before me.」

「Sudden Light By Dante Gabriel Rossetti

I have been here before,

But when or how I cannot tell:

I know the grass beyond the door,

The sweet keen smell,

The sighing sound, the lights around the shore.

You have been mine before,—

How long ago I may not know:

But just when at that swallow's soar

Your neck turn'd so,

Some veil did fall,—I knew it all of yore.

Has this been thus before?

And shall not thus time's eddying flight

Still with our lives our love restore

In death's despite,

And day and night yield one delight once more?」

「Say not the struggle nought availeth. The labor and the wounds are vain. The enemy faints not nor faileth. And as things have been, they remain. For while, the tired waves vainly breaking seem here no painful inch gain far back through creeks and inlets making come silent flooding in the main. And not by eastern windows only when daylight comes, comes in the light. In front, the sun climbs slow, how slowly. But westward look, the land is bright.」

「I began by thinking I could save you, but in the end, all I can do is honor you. My mother, first among women, my warmth and my comfort, my safety, my pride, you're the one I want to please. You're the one I want to applaud me. My father, first among men, my teacher and myjudge. The man I know I will become. You grow older now. You'll still ahead of me as you'll always be. Forever further down the road. Forgive me for needing you to be strong forever. Forgive me for fearing your unhappiness. As you suffer, so I shall suffer. As you endure, so I shall endure. Hold my hands and walk the old walk one last time then let me go.」