第一部也看完过，当时印象最深刻的是小果的感情线，也曾沉醉于寻果cp。第二部目前看到更新处，可能是我自己也经历了毕业季，初探职场，怀揣着当下年轻人的困境，更能感受到这部剧的深意，我会觉得第二部比第一部更好看。

以下是一些感受：

我一直想要成长，但总发现我的人生顺遂，没有跌宕起伏。看见小果为奖金努力投项目四处奔波，却被领导抢功劳，又惨遭商业手段置换项目。看见梁爽年纪轻轻已经成为知名主播，却因为一场播出事故让公司损失两百万自己也一落千丈。看见大宝创业受阻，家庭破产，勤勤恳恳从小商务做起，每天省钱省钱省钱，由奢入俭。看见丁一煊虽然没有壮志理想，但会厨艺会包扎会安慰人。看见蒋总为了公司利益必须干脆的与爱人解约，不情绪化，迅速果敢的做出最利于当下局面的决策。

我们总说理想被现实击倒，那什么是现实？现实是你刚刚毕业，社会环境逼迫你必须要自食其力，必须自己承担起养活自己的责任。现实是，进入社会后你的每一个决定每一个举措可能都牵动着一个公司几百万几千万的利益，也有可能是一些人未来的人生或生命。现实是不能感情用事，要迅速判断当下场合中最有利的情境。我总习惯着眼于我当前的人际，但人际关系是流动的，利益瓜葛是稳定的，虽不能逐利驱义，但要守住道德底线的同时利益最大化。金融理财上如是，社会生存法则如是。生存的大智慧是利益驱动。

很打动我的两段摘抄：

“世界上最奇妙的是关系，关系永远在流动。上一秒，你和他还是意见不合的同事，下一秒，可能就成为了伙伴；上一秒，你和他约定了远离彼此，下一秒，却不由自主地选择靠近；上一秒，你和他还是互相咒骂的死对头，下一秒，你们又坐在桌子两端决定重新合作。”

“长大后我们才知道，没有人能够永远停留在新手村，我们总要笨拙地去对抗这个复杂的世界，有时蒙冤，有时犯错；我们还要笨拙地去对抗自己复杂的情绪，有时沉默，有时退缩。有时发现接受或者拒绝，都不是一件易事；有时因为片刻温暖，暂时忘却难事；有时也因为他人的接触，短暂远离孤独。”

成长好像必须要踩着麻烦往上走，我们难以像爽文爽剧的主角一路开挂打怪升级，自己不受伤还能干趴一片人，在面对麻烦时往往伤敌一千自损八百，刚触碰这些损伤时会难过、悲伤、心痛，可随着一次次打击，我们越来越能趋利避害，损失也逐渐变少，心脏的承受能力也逐渐变强大。

从小的家庭教育理念是让我远离麻烦，可是要想成长我必须接触麻烦，主动找麻烦上门，在拉练过程中训练强大的肉体和心灵。

太搞笑了，我笑了好多次，对于前几天心情被影响的我来说，简直就是治愈系。下面是剧透环节:我对小黄人没有任何抵抗力，凡是有他们身影的电影我必须得去影院看，那种开心是千金难买的。有点跑题了，小黄人们的这次由于格鲁要做好人就决定抛弃他们的大boss离家出走，饿的饥肠辘辘的时候看到披萨外卖，紧追而至了海选舞台，在舞台上的即兴发挥让我大笑了全程。可以说是第一个搞笑高潮。后来捣蛋鬼们在监狱里过着人人望而生畏的，横行霸道的没有自由的生活。聪明的小捣蛋鬼们后来终究还是逃了出去，剧中的新人物是德鲁，格鲁的孪生弟弟，一个想做坏事，却没有天赋的可爱的人。喜欢这个电影的原因很多，他传递出来的东西，譬如，亲情，德鲁格鲁的兄弟情，小可爱的姐姐不忍心告诉妹妹小羊不是独角兽时候的暖心设计，路西想做一个好妈妈的各种挑战，最后一句妈妈让她开心不已。我爱这部电影。

曾经的我 幸福满足I was once happy, content,徜徉在只属于我的羊水之中sloshing around in my own private, primordial pool.结果有一天 由于不可抗拒的因素Then one day, for reasons beyond my control,我母亲莱丝丽的子宫I was repeatedly crushed...一次又一次对我残忍地施加压力over and over by the cruel cervix of my mother, Leslie.我顽强地抵抗了 却终敌不过大自然I put up a good fight, but I lost,这是我人生第一次败仗 之后更是节节败退

我厌弃所有人 除了你I hate everyone else in the world but you.

茱尔丝 你自残吗And, Jules, do you self-injure?事实上 茱尔丝讨厌自己The truth was, Jules hated herself.她讨厌自己大脑的运作方式She hated how her brain worked...她的大脑会因一个想法而卡住the way it would get stuck on a thought,从而噎到自己like choking.专注于当下All right. Keep present.大脑会陷入无尽的循环And it would just play on an infinite loop,直到她停止思考until she couldn't think无法呼吸 濒临死亡or breathe or stand to be alive.克服并非易事 茱尔丝This is hard, Jules.你一定可以挺过去You're going to get through it, okay?但她不仅讨厌自己的大脑She didn't just hate her brain, though.她还讨厌自己的身体 但不是每个部位都讨厌She hated her body, not every part,只讨厌肩膀 手臂just her shoulders, and her arms,双手and her hands.还有胸部 腹部 大腿Also her chest, her stomach, her thighs.她最讨厌膝盖了Her knees were the worst.还很讨厌脚踝和肥大的双脚Plus her ankles, and her big, fucking, stupid feet.她讨厌自己的人生 并非因为过得不好She hated her life, not because it was bad,而是因为 痛恨自己的大脑和身体之人but because when you hate your brain and your body,很难享受人生

每当她被虐得很惨时...And whenever anything got too uncomfortable...茱尔丝就假装自己灵魂出窍Jules would just imagine that she wasn't really herself,她其实在旁观别人的生活and this wasn't really her life.她只是虚构作品中的一个虚构人物She was just a character in a book or a movie or a show.一切都是假象 即便是真 又能如何呢That none of it was real, and if it was, how did it matter?这具身体本就不属于她It's not like her body ever really belonged to her in the first place.

我没有特别喜欢的事情There's nothing I'm really passionate about.没有非要做或说的事You know, like, I'm not dying to say or do anything, really.每次我向大家坦露心迹And every time I admit that to people,他们都会觉得这样很可悲 但是...they're like, "Oh, my gosh, that's so sad." But...我觉得多数人都是如此I think that's the case for most people.我妈是如此You know? Like, when I look at my mom or...我同学也是如此like, the kids at my school--从他们社交媒体上的动态就能看出来like, their profiles or their posts and their Tumblr rants...大家也都过得稀里糊涂 迷茫无助you realize they're all just fucked up, too... and lost.只是他们都得掩饰真相...They just have a reason to mask it...为了不让家人担忧whether it be, like, their, their families拴住男友 博取关注or their boyfriends or their hashtag activism.他们都只是借助表面的光鲜亮丽And they're just reaching for something-粉饰人生的虚无 -小茹...- to make it all seem meaningfu

麦迪从小就很了解自己Maddy knew who she was from a very early age.从麦迪记事以来 她就是万人迷For as long as Maddy could remember, everybody loved her.

她不知自己为何受欢迎She never knew exactly what it was.她只知道自己很特殊She just knew that she had something special,气质迷幻朦胧something intangible,魅力无人能及something immeasurable.

她因此充满自信And it gave her confidence

她也是因此热爱选美That's why she loved pageantry,因为冠军不必容貌倾城 高挑精干because you didn't have to be the prettiest or the tallest也不必金发碧眼 肤如凝脂or the blondest or the whitest.自信闪耀就够了

You just had to have fucking confidence.嘉年华当晚 和卢克·卡斯滕打炮时So the night of the carnival, while fucking Luke Kasten,凯特顿悟了Kat had an epiphany.她居然上了卢克·卡斯滕She was fucking Luke Kasten,那他妈可是卢克·卡斯滕啊Luke motherfucking Kasten.没上过东高的人可能不知道...And for those of you who didn't go to East Highland...卢克·卡斯滕可是男神Luke Kasten was a fucking god.他毕业多年 可学校里依然有他的传说I mean, he graduated years ago and people still talk about him.他有我见过最大的鸡鸡He has the biggest dick I've ever seen,他上我时 我一直盯着他看and I was looking at him while he was fucking me.他射精时I could see his face scrunching up我看到他的脸皱成一团when he was coming all over my stomach,我突然就顿悟了and I had this, like, realization, you know, like, this epiphany.无论这个人有多酷帅性感That no matter how cool, or, or sexy不论他在你眼中有多聪明or, or smart you think a guy is,其实都卑微渺小得可悲可怜they're actually just fucking pathetic.

我一直试图减弱自己的存在感my whole life, all I've tried to do is to take up less space.

企图避开那帮男人Try to hide from guys, like, who might, like,因为我经过时 他们会对朋友悄悄吐槽whisper to their friend under their breath as I walked by.我这一生I've spent my whole life都在担心大家会发现我是个胖妞afraid people were gonna find out that I was fat.但说实话 根本没人在意But honestly, who gives a shit?

无所畏惧的胖女孩所向披靡There's nothing more powerful than a fat girl who doesn't give a fuck.

高中的情谊转瞬即逝 并非天长地久Nothing in high school lasts forever.你该见见她You should meet her.

Are you kidding me?你被罚下了You're out of the game.冲动就会输球You get emotional, you lose.动怒就会输球You get angry, you lose.-爸 他说我是... -无关紧要- Dad, he called me-- - I don't give a good goddamn.你觉得他为什么偏偏说你呢Why do you think he's talking to you in the first place?-因为他... -因为他想激怒你- Because he-- - Because he's trying to get a rise out of you.扰乱你的思绪 让你分心Trying to make you upset, lose focus.他在挑战你的底线 这就是生存法则That's his game. That's the world's game.他们不断逼你They want to push on you,逗弄你 考验你的极限Poke on you, see exactly how much you can take.极限会决定你能走多远And how much you can take is what will ultimately define you.因为应对之道可以衡量人的品性Because the measure of a man is in how he reacts.我该如何应对How am I supposed to react?将自己的所有情绪By taking everything you feel,挫败感 愤怒 狂暴all your frustrations, your anger, your rage,统统收起you bottle it up,守住本心you take your position,当情绪累积至顶峰and when that snap comes,将其化作喷薄而出的动力you let it explode.

她几乎每次都会心软答应And she almost always said yes.尽管她很不情愿 也会照做Even though it didn't always make her feel good.她知道 多数男生跟她分手后And she knew that most guys, after she broke up with them,都会散播她的性爱视频和裸照

would always share those photos or videos.她刚发现时 恐慌心悸The first time she found out, she had a panic attack,她甚至想吞扑热息痛自杀and wanted to swallow a whole bottle of Tylenol.但最终打消了自杀的念头But she didn't.因为大家顶多言语上对她讽刺挖苦Because, I mean, what's the worst thing anybody could say to her?无非就是嘲笑她给渣男口交而已That she gave a blowjob to a guy who didn't deserve it?而且 她觉得等到毕业求职那会儿And she figured by the time she was out of college and looking for a job,绝大多数人都有过裸照的黑历史了99 percent of the population would have leaked nudes, anyway.

一想到要站起来The thought of having to stand up,移动35英尺 每走一步要调动172块肌肉exert 172 muscles each step for 35 feet,就为了坐在冰凉的陶瓷坐便器上just so I can sit on cold porcelain日复一日地排出体内毒素and piss out toxins over and over again for the rest of my life我就觉得人生是一个漫长且磨人的玩笑makes the whole concept of living feel like one long, sadistic joke.但抑郁最磨人的一点是But the absolute worst part of depression你明知自己抑郁了is that even though you know you're depressed,却依然无可救药地越陷越深you're unable to stop yourself from getting worse

抑郁的另一症状就是The other thing about depression is让人丧失时间概念it kind of collapses time.突然之间 全部记忆混杂交织Suddenly, you find your whole days blending together无穷无尽 令人窒息to create one endless and suffocating loop.抑郁后 人会试图回想愉悦的瞬间So you find yourself trying to remember the things that made you happy.但大脑会一点点蚕食欣快的回忆But slowly, your brain begins to erase every memory that ever brought you joy.最终And eventually,脑中仅剩人生中沉闷压抑的记忆all you can think about is how life has always been this way.人就会日渐消沉And will only continue to be this way.

曾经有个心理医生说 我压抑的状态会起起落落I had a therapist once who said that these states will wax and wane.我妈因此松了一口气Which gave my mother relief,因为就算我犯病了because it meant that in the bad times,总也会好起来there would be good times.但她也因此焦灼难安But it also gave her anxiety因为就算我一时没事because it meant that in the good times,总也有抑郁发作的一天there would be bad times.我一直很不解It always confused me,因为我不懂"起落"的意思because I didn't really know what it meant.但听起来比我自己的形容更让人安心But it did sound a lot calmer than the way I would describe it.我得继续服药There you go. How you feel? Okay?我知道你现在很低落 宝贝I know you're feeling low right now, baby.但你没有故态复萌 说明你的症状有所缓解But the fact that you didn't turn back means you're gettin' better.没错It does.一定是这样It does.当然了 我之后才领悟到Granted, I didn't realize until later"起起落落"的真正含义what waxing and waning implied.抑郁无法根除 会反复发作That these feelings were fixed and constant我的余生都将与抑郁作伴and would never end for the rest of my life.

我住院观察了三天And kept me there for three days.其实住院可好了It was actually really nice.我超喜欢医院I love hospitals.要是余生都能在医院度过 我绝对没意见If I could spend the rest of my life in a hospital, I would.因为住院时Because when you're in a hospital,可以做个米虫you have zero responsibilities.医护人员会保证你吃饱睡好 身体棒棒They make sure you eat, sleep, stay hydrated,如遇不测 医生总能及时出现and if anything bad happens, there's always a doctor nearby.谢谢Thank you.发生大规模枪击案时 待在医院最明智了It's also the best place to be in the event of a mass shooting,只要外科医生没死光光就行unless the gunman kills all the surgeons.关键是 我在医院无忧无虑The point is, I had zero anxiety.

我昨晚写信时and as I sat down last night to write it,忍不住回想你出生那天的场景I couldn't stop thinking about the day you were born.我第一次将你抱入臂弯Holding you in my arms for the first time,怜爱地看着你looking down at you,看着你可爱动人的小脸your sweet, beautiful face...我这辈子从未如此充满爱意 欢欣愉悦I had never felt so much love and joy in my entire life.于是我想到...And I thought that...若是那一刻 有人能提醒我该多好what if in that moment I heard a voice,通晓万物的人生旁白对我低语some omniscient narrator who said,"接下来将会如此""Here's what's going to happen."你的女儿将会风趣幽默 聪明伶俐 开朗大方""Your daughter is gonna be funny, and smart, and outgoing,"她的灵气从小便会显现"You'll see it instantly, from a young age.""她将会魅力四射 广交朋友""She'll be charismatic and make friends easily.""她将会温柔善良 心思细腻""She'll be kind and sensitive."细腻到敏感""Maybe too sensitive."她不会是个乖乖女""She won't be an easy child."她会很叛逆"She'll struggle.""因此 你将很难看懂她""And in turn, you'll struggle to understand her.""你将跟不上她的思维""To understand what's going on inside of her head."无法理解那些难以摆脱的梦魇""The night terrors that can't be interrupted."很多时候 晚饭后""The times after dinner where"她会坐在餐桌旁""She'll just sit at the kitchen table"一遍遍数着天花板砖的数量and count the tiles over and over,"数到自己上气不接下气""Until she hyperventilates."你会用尽全力拥她入怀 安慰她""To fight to hold her in your arms, to tell her it's okay.""你们将难以平静 她会摔打东西 大吼大叫""To calm down. The kicking. The screaming."她会害怕受伤""The anxiety of being harmed."她会日夜煎熬""The transitions from day to night,"从家中到学校 每顿饭皆是如此""From home to school, from meal to meal."她会担心失去父母和妹妹"Of losing her mother or father or little sister.""她害怕会孤苦伶仃"- "Of being alone."我很喜欢她I really like her."她会恐慌发作 情绪波动 迷惑不解 精神分裂""The panic attacks, mood swings, confusion, disorganization"她会愤怒狂躁""And all that rage."不仅生你的气 也会恼恨自己""Not just at you, but at herself."最煎熬的是...""And the tough part i"她无法自救 而你也将束手无策""you'll feel as helpless to help her as she does herself.""你将犯下大大小小的错误""You'll make mistakes. Small ones and big ones."你会慌忙求助 病急乱投医""You'll look for help from people who aren't helpful."你求助之人或许根本不了解情况""Or who don't actually understand what's happening.""内疚感将因此伴你终生""And the guilt will never leave you.""但若你保持镇定 温柔耐心""But if you remain calm and patient,"若你能仔细聆听""If you listen closely,"你便能渐渐理解她""理解她为何重复地数了一遍又一遍""The counting, the repetition,"理解她对于对称的执着""the need for symmetry."若你睡前亲吻了她的左脸""That if you kiss her left cheek before bed,"一定也要亲吻她的右脸""You have to kiss her right cheek."还有额头 下巴""And her forehead. Then her chin."因为这样才平衡稳定""That it's about balance, stability."这样她才能疏导情绪 捋顺思绪""The need to organize her feelings and thoughts, so..."这样她才能平静下来"she can breathe easier.""你将得到片刻的喘息""And there will be moments of relief,"你们俩都能松一口气""In her and in you."这些时刻平静安宁 顺心满足""Moments that feel so normal, and calm, and rewarding that..."你会希望平淡的幸福能够天长地久""You'll find yourself praying they last forever."可她还小""Even though she's only a child,"糟心事还在后面呢"And all the hard parts have yet to even come."16岁时""And at the age of 16,"她会吸毒过量""She'll overdose,"昏迷四天""Spend four days in a coma,"生死未卜""And you won't know if she'll live or die."但等她醒来""But when she wakes up,"她会有机会戒毒""She'll be given the opportunity to get clean,"改过自新""To become a different person,"完善自己""A better person."但有一点你无能为力""Here's the toughest part."不论你怎么说 怎么做 怎么想""No matter what you say, or do, or wish,"决定权都在她手中""The decision will be all hers."你只能心怀希望""And all you can do is hope"希望她能给自己一个重新来过的机会"

凯特Kat.万一现在就是我们人生的高光时刻呢What if these are, like, the big moments in life?我妈总说Like, my mom always talks about高中是她人生的里程碑式高光时刻how high school was like this big, monumental part of her life.可她都半老徐娘了 居然还对高中念念不忘But I cannot imagine being 40 and looking back at this, like, "Wow."因为多数人在高中达到了人生巅峰Yeah, but that's because most people peak in high school.我肯定还没达到巅峰...I definitely haven't peaked, so...我感觉自己还没长大呢I feel like I'm not even a person yet.我也就攀登到巅峰的四分之一吧Yeah, I'm definitely at, like, 25 percent peakness.我好像达到巅峰了I feel like I'm at a hundred.但我还能升得更高But I can definitely get to 150.讲真 我都没想到自己能撑到现在Honestly, I never thought I'd make it this far.什么意思What do you mean?我总是提心吊胆 惶惶不安I don't know. I just always had, like, this overwhelming anxiety我总觉得一定会出事that something bad would happen.说实话 去年夏天In all fairness, last summer,我有三周一直以为你死了there were, like, three weeks where I thought you were dead.

如果你细数一下豆瓣上同性题材的影视剧，你会发现他们都是清一色的高分，十分地匪夷所思，我只能告诉我自己可能是因为同性题材的影视剧真的都普遍拍得很好吧，绝对不是因为部分腐女闭着眼睛在打分。但说到底我也不是很在乎这些同性影视剧分数如何，毕竟我不是他们的受众群，就像我也不在乎某国产偶像剧明明女主台词念得稀烂也能得到8分以上，我只希望那些人呆在自己的地方就好。那说回迪士尼和皮克斯，一个面向儿童也面向大人，面向美国也面向世界的动画大厂，仅仅22年一年就连着放出两部夹带LGBT的作品，还都是曾经佳作的衍生作品，以后的新作是个什么样子我已经不敢想了。

题材属于女巫类型，只是剧情上可能会给人一种玛丽苏的感觉，但是毕竟它创作时间太早了，以现在的角度去看待剧情是不可取的，所以按照当时的时代感来说，剧情变化其实很大的，其次就是一些拍摄手法，我个人觉得很有神秘色彩，但是说实话没有感慨很恐怖的感觉，这可能是我看的类似的片子太多的原因，主线有点模糊，我不太清楚他想表达什么？栽培一个自己的女儿，扶她上位？然后统治世界？所以呢？为啥要选一个不熟悉的人，而舍弃身边一直衷心的人？还有第二季出现的男巫，居然就在结尾出来一句，他接近你是我派的就完了？？？所以呢？就这样？那么问题来了，这部剧的剧情线是真的模糊，不知道其父在其中是什么角色，她妈也只是在第一季最后一集出现过，莉莉丝在其中完全就像一个教母一样，指引女主一步步成长，堕落？然鹅女主其实一直都没有真正的成长，她一直都被保护的太好了，所以这一切的谋划就很迷了，完全不知道想表现什么，明明是爱情题材，硬生生要搞这么多隐晦的政治意思....结果导致后面的结局也莫名其妙，不解其意，封印的也是草草结束

看过第一部呀，一直在想是不是哥哥给女儿编的一个故事为了让女儿接受二胎宝宝，还是他的弟弟就是这样来的，毕竟哥哥的幻想能力太强了。是不是哥哥小的时候就觉得弟弟是这样来的，所以一直以为弟弟就是这样来的呢？所以不太明白一开始为什么觉得弟弟是穿着boss装来的，而父母却不觉得弟弟很奇怪呢？

冲着刘以豪来的，剧情还可以，所有演员演技也还行，几位主角的颜值都很高，很养眼，服装也很美！令人感觉观感很舒服！

女主肤白貌美大长腿，不知道是不是得罪了化妆师，这个大厚嘴唇子太难看了。荔枝很漂亮，但是感觉长得很像阿娇，连脸上的痣都一样。小演员和老演员演技真的很好，也有些情节可以打动人心！

总的来说，茶余饭后消遣一下的话，可以一看

槽点太多了，看了前8集，笑点都是网上抄的段子，网红句子，看那群演技用力的小演员演绎出来只有满满的尴尬。女主整天除了学习什么事都干，最后考倒数第一还怀疑人生，我的天哪，她不倒数第一谁倒数啊？我看她怀疑人生，我都怀疑人生了。分了班开始尬舞，虽然知道你想表现开心的心情，能不能换个表现形式，自己看了不尴尬吗，高中了喂，还当小学一年级呢。对男主的过度吹捧，父母的过分宠溺，女主的过分渲染，只让我感觉深深的尴尬。

设定在全国最好高中，还在上海，剧里随便吃东西，放学时候天正亮，哪个地方重点中学高一这样。演员没上过重点高中就算了，导游编剧没去上海看看那里高中什么样吧，坐家里拍拍脑袋就把剧本写出来了吧，中国东部城市好点的高中哪会这样？这就全国重点高中，那真正刻苦的，学习成风的学校都倒闭了？剧中逻辑不合理之处比比皆是，不是不能细推，而是推都不能推，想都不能想，得不带脑子看心里才能愉快的看剧。

本来冲着封面闫妮张嘉译去的，看了六集这两位的戏份加起来顶多一集，拿老戏骨吸引眼球太作了吧。

片长也是问题，一集35分钟，片头加前情回顾（第一次看到那么久的前情回顾）加片尾得有10分钟，能看的就25分钟，电视剧拍出了动漫的长度，更厉害的是，他一段尴尬完了，我感觉快结束了，一看进度条，怎么还有十分钟？！

这部剧想演绎真实的高中生活，又想突出其中的丰富多彩，但开头起点太高，中间没有平衡好学习和课余，我看到了导演的想法，但没有看到他实现想法的能力。看这部剧我觉得不如把重点放在孩子与大人关系，或者别放在重点高中。我看微博下还刷这就是我的高中生活，这是重点高中吗？是上海的重点高中吗？这是向往的高中吧。

6.1分实在太客气了，处处是硬伤，充满尬点，《我只喜欢你》虽然主讲感情线，但其中高中偶尔拍到学习的桥段都甩它10条街。看 我只喜欢你 有种在看人家真实的故事的感觉，能让我进入剧情，而看青春派，时时刻刻都提醒我在看一部虚假的造作的毫无诚意与用心的国产剧。

哪位小鲜肉说过句"名言”：大概意思是演技好不好不重要，只要观众看的开心就行。这演技好不好我就不说了，但着实是没法开心起来。